Introduction

Understanding the cultural and spiritual philosophies that either individual influential riggers hold to, or have grown up with can give an understanding of some of the underpinning of the approaches that have been taken by riggers from Japan.  Having a better understanding of these concepts can help both in understanding and appreciation of Shibari. 

Wabi-sabi (侘寂) is a traditional Japanese aesthetic concept that finds beauty in imperfection, impermanence, and simplicity. Rooted in Zen Buddhism, wabi-sabi embraces the natural cycle of growth and decay, celebrating the authenticity of life and the transient nature of all things. 

Key Aspects of Wabi-Sabi

1. Wabi (侘):

   • Refers to simplicity, rustic elegance, and a sense of understated beauty.
   • Focuses on the serene and unpretentious aspects of life, often associated with solitude and a connection to nature.
   • Example: The quiet charm of a modest, weathered teacup.

2. Sabi (寂):

   • Emphasizes the beauty of aging and the patina of time.
   • Reflects the acceptance of transience and the inevitable wear of all things.
   • Example: The subtle elegance of moss growing on an old stone.

Wabi-sabi is more than just an aesthetic—it is a way of seeing and living that honours the imperfect, the impermanent, and the incomplete. It teaches us to find beauty in the natural flow of life and to cherish the fleeting.

Wabi-Sabi in Shibari

The concepts of Wabi-Sabi are interwoven within Shibari, with some elements being embraced more fully than others by individaul riggers. Elements of Wabi-Sabi can be seen in not just some 'traditional' rope patterns and styles of tying, but in the over arching approach of some riggers which can include: 

1. Working with the natural contours of the body, and the emotional state of the person tying and being tied to create unique ties that focus on emotional connection.

2.  Avoiding overly intricate patterns and purely decorative elements within ties, and instead embracing the beauty of simple functional patterns, where each knot, wrap and friction serves its own purpose.

3. The use of ropes that are from grown fibers (e.g. Jute, hemp, bamboo) which age, and change with time as opposed to manufactured materials (synthetic ropes). 

4. Embracing moments of vulnerability, connection, and trust.